I am an English teacher at a senior high school. Just after I became a teacher, I began to watch movies in English. But I have not known the names of American people in the movies. In class one day I was talking about a famous American movie called "Dirty Harry" in class and made a mistake in saying the name of a famous man in the movie. The name I said in class was 'Clint Westwood'. That was wrong. I made a mistake of saying 'West' for 'East'. The students in class laughed.
Then I got an idea for a meeting. I was asked to talk to the parents of some students. I decided to talk about this story in the meeting. I told the story to them. When I finished telling this story, they laughed. Because I told this at the beginning of the meeting, this helped them to relax.
People say that the Japanese are not good at making a story with humor. Japanese people often sleep or do not talk much in meetings. Why do they do this? Sometimes they are tired or just don't want to listen or talk, and speakers in Japan don't use humor so that people won't go to sleep in the meetings. But in English-speaking countries, humor helps people to relax and get ready for the next story.
An important thing in humor is not to tell stories of your successes but to tell stories of your mistakes. The other important thing is not to use the mistakes of others but to use your own mistakes. Humor that tells about one of your mistakes helps people to understand you more.
Another example of humor is the story of U.S. President George Bush. When he had to make a speech in front of a lot of people in a meeting in America, he said, "Today I would like to ask my wife to talk just like in Japan." The people laughed, because they knew that he was fine but, when he became sick in Japan, his wife talked to the people. He used his bad experience to make humor. This story relaxed the people in the meeting.
Like Mr. Bush, I used my own bad experience to make humor. By using humor, people will not go to sleep in a meeting. After the humor, people will listen to the talk better. The meeting will be more interesting and people will not sleep. So let's make humor and have fun.